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mikke	One thing you want to change about yourself		Lead	[-]
Super Member Posts: 626 03/04/09 4:24 PM	Tags : None What is the main thing you don't like about yourself? And what do you do to change it? There are lot of things I would like to change in my personality, but one thing simply drives me crazy - I always feel myself guilty for spending not enough time with my little girl. This feeling gives me a lot of stress. I would like to spend more time with her, but I can't. I need to go to work. Rest of the time we spend together, but I feel guilty anyway. I try to make this our time more interesting, we colour, we listen to the music, we read books, we dance, we cook, we go for a walk, we feed cats and doves outside - but it doesn't help me to feel better. I hate working 8 hours a day. Do you have anything you would like to change about yourself?
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xavi		#1	[url]	[-]
Super Member Posts: 270 05/04/09 11:11 PM	Hi mikke, Don´t worry, it´s a problem of the our society. I think that all we wish to spend more time with our child, but nowadays it's so difficult to do it. We need to work 8 hours (if you are lucky and you have work near of home). In other cases, you must wake up early to arrive a work at time. Then you don't see a your child in the morning. And when arrive at home, or they are sleeping or maybe only you have a hour to stay with their. But if you can give a your children a smile, and you can see a smile in their face, you are doing a good work. I think that in this life, it isn't important how many time you can spend with your children,but the quality. really, most important it's happiness that you can give.
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hermine		#2	[url]	[-]
Moderator Super Member Posts: 6454 06/04/09 8:42 AM Moderator	Hi Mikke, spend the time you have for you child with quality. Lots of people live together and do have their thoughts by all other things. Past is over, today is a new day, look ahaid.
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Abdulrahman		#3	[url]	[-]
I'm new, say "Hi!" Posts: 3 10/04/09 7:25 PM	Hi all, I really want to change one thing in my personality, which is seriousness. I used to act seriously almost with everyone knows me, with my friends, my female friends, and relatives. I know that they do like me, but I want to be kind of funny but I don't know how. It's maybe because of the enviroment I'm living in? I don't know. This even has an influence on my relations with the fair sex. Anyway, i'm trying, but I'm not sure how it could be useful for me. Thanks for the topic.
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Lynne Hand		#4	[url]	[-]
Super Member Posts: 28447 12/04/09 5:48 PM Your Teacher	Hi Abdul, Interesting point. Sometimes having serious people around is a good thing, but having fun is important too. Don't be one of those people who when someone says, "Wow! What a beautiful sunset," replies with, "It's the pollution in the atmosphere." You don't have to be one of those joke a minute guys (they can get on your nerves in the end). Start by showing real interest in other people, keep up to date on what's happening in the world, be open and friendly and try to be fun to be with by arming yourself with a few anecdotes, think up some fun things to do with your friends, having fun yourself will follow. Your Teacher http://www.learn-english-network.org
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kmanoj	Want to come out of the over- imotions	#5	[url]	[-]
I'm new, say "Hi!" Posts: 1 18/05/09 8:00 AM	I am a very imotional guy, i believe one should be sensible but not imotional worst part of being imotional is people use your imotions as and when they want but they donot really donot care of you, what say ?
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Lynne Hand		#6	[url]	[-]
Super Member Posts: 28447 18/05/09 8:50 AM Your Teacher	Hi Kamnoj, Welcome to the forum. I am an emotional person too. I have learnt that it is important to understand how I react to things and how I express my emotions, this way I can rationalise how I feel (angry / sad / happy etc) and it has helped me to control my emotions, but not surpress them. PS - emotions / emotional Your Teacher http://www.learn-english-network.org
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fordia		#7	[url]	[-]
Super Member Posts: 115 24/05/09 7:26 AM	Hi Kmanoj I think its better to be an emotional person then to have no emotions. There is a lot of cold people out there. So I agree with Lynne, you just have to learn how to handle your emotions.
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maya95		#8	[url]	[-]
Newbie Posts: 7 31/05/09 9:29 PM	fordia wrote: "Hi Kmanoj I think its better to be an emotional person then to have no emotions. There is a lot of cold people out there. So I agree with Lynne, you just have to learn how to handle your emotions. " I agree with you it's just a question of balance and control To me , I would like to changes many thing but above all I would like to be more confident I am not able to assert myself and it's a big problem , it's hard sometimes in profesional as well as in personal life
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fordia		#9	[url]	[-]
Super Member Posts: 115 31/05/09 9:42 PM	Hi Maya Dont forget to love yourself like the aphorism says: love your neighbour as you love yourself
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xiaofang		#10	[url]	[-]
I'm new, say "Hi!" Posts: 1 05/06/09 7:53 AM	RHi all I have one thing to change in my personality ! I always want to learn many things at one time , i think maybe i am a quick person. I konw "Rome wasn`t built in a day ",but sometimes it useless. I am a graduating student ,so warried about my future ,because i am not in a good college.
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Lynne Hand		#11	[url]	[-]
Super Member Posts: 28447 05/06/09 9:23 AM Your Teacher	Hi Xiaofang, Welcome to the forum. You're right - Rome wasn't built in a day, and it wasn't built by one person either. Your Teacher http://www.learn-english-network.org
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naveen dhanerwal		#12	[url]	[-]
Moderator Super Member Posts: 728 08/06/09 10:43 AM Super Member	I'm not different form Mikke and Xiao. At least, Mikke can spend his time with his little girl everyday but I can't. I work away from my home and go there once in a week or sometimes once in every two weeks. Like Xiao, I try to learn many things at a single time but, honestly, I never try them seriously. One more thing about me is I don't forget things easily that I must forget on the spot. It depresses me a lot later. Last Edited By: naveen dhanerwal 09/06/09 9:44 AM. Edited 2 times.
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Lynne Hand		#13	[url]	[-]
Super Member Posts: 28447 09/06/09 11:34 AM Your Teacher	Hi Naveen, I forget things that I should remember, and I remember things that I really should forget. Your Teacher http://www.learn-english-network.org
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naveen dhanerwal		#14	[url]	[-]
Moderator Super Member Posts: 728 09/06/09 12:10 PM Super Member	Hello teacher, It sounds much better.
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Alan lee		#15	[url]	[-]
Loyal Member Posts: 96 10/06/09 6:56 AM	"It's easier said than done." Lots of things that I want to do, some plans to execute those things, but no concrete actions. This is one thing I want to change about myself.
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mikke		#16	[url]	[-]
Super Member Posts: 626 10/06/09 9:34 AM	xavi wrote: But if you can give a your children a smile, and you can see a smile in their face, you are doing a good work. I want to thank Xavi. It seemed that I knew everything he was talking about, but when it had been said by another person it made more sense to me. I paid more attention to Xavi's words about making my girl smiling. I've noticed that she is laughing almost all the time we spend together. It means she feels good, she doesn't feel untended or abandoned. Since that time I started to feel better and not so guilty for leaving her every day. It looks like important things in life are so obvious that sometimes we just take no notice of them.
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susi		#17	[url]	[-]
Keen Member Posts: 36 27/06/09 11:19 AM	Hi to all! I'd like to be more brave with other people, I mean in relationships with friends or other people, I don't know but sometimes I'm too shy!!and I don't know why because usually I'm friendly and happy to meet new people...boh!
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dansol		#18	[url]	[-]
I'm new, say "Hi!" Posts: 4 28/06/09 12:37 AM	Hi guys, I have the same kind of problem as Susi. I want to talk with people but I'd rather prefer listening. That makes me look so boring. while people are with me I prefer poking them to talk about themselves than telling my stories.
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susi		#19	[url]	[-]
Keen Member Posts: 36 28/06/09 11:18 AM	Hi dansol! Yes, I also prefer to listen! but I'd like that other people hear me, sometimes!! Listening people isn't a fault! instead pepole need to be heard. I realized on my self, that some people ask me 'how are you' only to start to talk on his/her self for hours!!ok egocentric...but I'm too patient! No fortunately not all people are so! there are also good friends bye
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jarui		#20	[url]	[-]
I'm new, say "Hi!" Posts: 2 30/06/09 6:20 PM	i want to change my negative way of thinking.. i also dont have the courage and self confidence.. i dont know what happened to me that i became so afraid of speaking in english infront of others, i feel that if i open my mouth and speak in english,and my grammar is not correct, evryone will end up laughing at me, i feel so dissapointed to my self and i dont know what to do..
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